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Like school administrators everywhere, Toby Weinberger uses complex and
intersecting criteria to determine whom to hire to teach the 6th-, 7th-
and 8th-grade students at her school.
One of Weinberger’s standards is terribly simple, though.
“The mission of my teachers is to make middle school better than
they had it,” said Weinberger, who retired in the spring after 13
years as the coordinator of the Bank Street School for Children’s
upper school. “Upper school” is the classification the Upper
West Side institution uses for traditional middle school grades, since
the School for Children runs from nursery through grade 8.
Weinberger’s criterion goes to the heart of the school’s philosophy:
educate the whole child.

Toby Weinberger, former head of the upper school. Photo by Andrew Schwartz
That means that in addition to academic lessons, this progressive private
school, run by the 91-year-old Bank Street College of Education, charges
its teachers with students’ social and emotional development. What’s
more, academic lessons are tied specifically to where students are in
their social and emotional development.
For example, as the 12- and 13-year-olds at the School for Children embark
down the rebellious path of adolescence, they study revolutions: the Chinese
Revolution, the Russian Revolution, the Revolutionary War.
In addition to the obvious history lessons, Weinberger said students also
learn an important life lesson: “If you’re questioning the
authority you’re under, what do you do then?”

A study of the American colonial period and revolution in the 7th grade,
therefore, leads naturally into a comprehensive U.S. history unit the
following year, starting with the formation of our government.
Structuring the curriculum in this way comes from nearly a century of
observation and research at Bank Street College of Education. The idea
is to center the learning “on the needs of children instead of the
needs of adults,” Weinberger explained.
But because all School for Children students must move to other schools
for 9th grade, some parents wonder if their children will lag behind in
the new environment.
“The timing is sometimes difficult for kids at Bank Street,”
said Jane Margolies, whose daughter, Hannah O’Grady, attended the
School for Children since nursery school and graduated this past spring.
“Eighth grade seemed late to learn about U.S. history,” Margolies
added.
Her concern arose because O’Grady was applying to public high schools, where most of the students likely would be coming from public middle schools that used common curriculum frameworks. The 8th-grader was up to the task, though, and is now a freshman at Stuyvesant.
The parent agreed that the School for Children excels in teaching thought.
Math is her daughter’s weakest subject but, Margolies said, she
“understands math topics well because they teach them ‘why,’
and not just how to use the formula and get the right answer.”
Another parent, David Millison, had two children graduate from the School
for Children. During both high school searches, Millison said he thought
that his children were very competitive in their admissions test scores
and applications. When Millison took his daughter, Julia, and son, Henry,
to visit public and private high schools, administrators said, “We
look forward to the kids from Bank Street coming here,” he recalled.
Millison said he believes that is because ?while the School for Children may not teach all the units that more traditional schools do—and certainly presents them in a different order—the institution definitely succeeds in teaching students how to think.

A teacher leads a class at The School for Children. Photo by Andrew Schwartz
Stressing deep thinking instead of memorization is not the only way the
School for Children differs from most other schools. Students here receive
written evaluations instead of grades. They take few tests, call teachers
and administrators alike by their first names, and families actively voice
topics they would like to see incorporated into the unabashedly progressive
curriculum.
But don’t make the mistake of thinking the school is lax—academically
or socially.
Students specifically learn to respect one another, as well as authority
figures. Weinberger joked, “I can still silence a room of 160 with
the evil eye.”
In addition, the curriculum in every grade includes the crucial life lessons
of organization and time management. And as students work their way through
the upper school division, they learn increasingly thorough research techniques.
That said, students at the School for Children still seem to have fun
in the classroom.

A student puts the finishing touches on an end-of-the-year project. Photo by Andrew Schwartz
Millison, who works on Wall Street, said that’s as it should be. He knows firsthand just how competitive life can be. But when he and his wife began looking for schools for their children, “The belief we had was that you didn’t have to go crazy with the kids in kindergarten,” he said. “Along the way, they should have a good time.”
— Michal Lumsden